She seems to met the wrong guy again. It is always the guy gets to know her, she starts to like the guy a lot, and they will have fun being together for some time, few months later the guy starts to lose interest, feeling starts to distant, and then she will have a series of emotional turmoil in the brain before deciding to break up.
Listening to her stories, I've wonder where did she find all the guys who has these jerky personality, or was it really common that, nowadays, love is just like a game where you get together for fun, and start losing interest when things are not in hype anymore. Learning from that, i would always remind myself to stay close and, not to let my lover feel distant or abandoned. That is....really the last thing that i would want my lover to feel.
Perhaps, the guys she meets, starts to distant away from her, because of her needs for love. For all that I've known, most of the guys she meets would not want to be committed or feeling obligated to love. In fact love might be something horrifying to them.All they want is to have some fun, being in a relationship but still free for doing what ever they want. It is the lifestyle pattern of the guys she meets that doesn't suit her at all, perhaps she needs to find her love at somewhere further.or maybe she needs to gather her thoughts, and start reflecting on what is there to fix about herself.
Relationships used to be simple in the past, but now, it is just a complicated game of emotional ambiguity. Sometimes i wonder, how many people would actually end up with a long lasting and faithful relationship.
With this observation, i am again, grateful.
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