Ignorance is bliss?

Heart to heart talks are precious especially when it opens up your mind to a new understanding. He doesn't know who to talk to about this issue, or perhaps, nobody ever asked. I am glad that the talk has lead us to that issue, and i am glad that he opened up, to tell me, what he is really feeling.

Issue 1 : Ignoring 
There are a certain issues that he ignored, thinking that it will pass by, but it all comes back in a pile now and it's hard to solve.

My Insight
There are 2 types of problems in this case:
a) Insignificant problems which is so small that they CAN be forgotten through time.
b) Problems which LOOKS insignificant and small, like cancer cells which start to accumulate till the point that it reaches a critical level. By then, it will be hard to control and might get out of hand. So why not fix it on early stages?

Self Observation:Reflecting on myself, i am the type of person who would not want something like this to occur, that is why i tend to discuss on every detail, which sometimes, is annoying. I might even be projecting the image of being oversensitive. Ironically, when you want to prevent something, you created another new issue.

Synthesizing the problems
There is also a part where the girl has the need for attention, and wanted a sense of care so badly that it leads her mind to a phase where everything is in high sensitivity. Even talking about other girls might be a problem, self esteem starts to drop, and thoughts about the guy is cheating on her sparks on almost every moment.

I somehow can feel and understand what the girl is going through, it is really something which is not easy to control, and very tormenting as well. At a moment like this, all that is can do is keep on addressing that issue, repetitively until it gets annoying. This is the moment that the person is weak, and helpless, because they are overwhelmed by their emotions and thoughts.

Love can be a drive force, to make a person becomes patient and selfless, giving in without any feeling of lost.

But if love is not there, or if love is fading, those would feel more like a sacrifice...

is this the consequences if little things are left unsolved....?

There is still much more to observe from my friend.